A major problem for a lot of men is premature ejaculation, the inability to have extended sexual activity before climaxing, as discouraging as it is for your partner it is even more so for yourself. In some cases it is a mental issue, and in others it is a problem due to a weak kidney energy, but most of the time it is a sensitivity issue.
Fortunately Chinese Herbal Medicine has a solution for the last two issues I mentioned above. One product that works tremendously well for the sensitivity issue is a product we affectionately call El Chinito.
If you have not seen the video here is the link: http://eastmeetswest.com/el-chinito/
As you saw in the video you apply El Chinito a minimum of 20 minutes before sexual activity, but it will work fine if sexual activity is 2-3 hours later, of course every man is different so it is a good idea to experiment with the time to see what works best for you.
Besides slightly desensitizing the 3 major areas mentioned in the video, El Chinito promotes strong blood flow when you have a erection. What is nice is you have control as far as how long you want to go enabling your partner if you wish to experience several orgasms before you do.
If premature ejaculation is due to weak kidney energy you can use a formula called Jin Suo Gu Jing Wan in conjunction with El Chinito to tonify the kidney Yang and Qi and lock in and astringe seminal disharge also known as Jing or the essence. This formula was used by Daoist Monks who did not want to lose any Jing thru nocturnal emissions.